Teaching your child self control: Building a strong emotional foundation.

Self control is a skill that that helps children to take great decisions, managing their emotions, and interact positively with other people. teaching your child, self control is an essential part of parenting, because it's the basic pillar, you are building for your child's future behavior towards any situation or anybody. however, it's natural in young children to act on impulse, learning self control early set the stage for their future success in personal life and academics as well. teaching self control create a seriousness in your child and makes them responsible too.
Why Self Control Matters:-
Children who develop self control are better raised child, with whom you can't be irritated while making them understand that what's wrong and what's right for them, though it's a skill that can't be developed overnight, but with the guidance, support, patience and practice your children can be able to manage their behavior and impulsiveness. Every child should learn self control to handle their every situation or emotion or to have necessary tools to be prepared for a particular situation, like:
1- Resolve Conflicts Calmly.
2- Take Responsible Choices.
3- Follows all Instruction without getting irritated.
4- Focuses on every given Tasks.
5- Delaying Gratification or Resisting the temptation of an immediate reward for long lasting reward later.
6- Able to handle frustration, delaying and disappointment.
Practical Ways to Teach your child Self control:-
1- Be a role model for your child, kid's learn more easily when they watch you doing same, they observe it rather than getting lecture on the it.
2- Teach problem solving skills, that help your child recognize what the feeling and finds appropriate ways to respond.
3- Praise and Encourage and acknowledge them when your child shows self control like, " i saw you wanted to go for playing with your friends, but you stayed for completing your home work- great job!" it encourages them to repeat that behavior.
4- Create a Calm space having a cozy corner where your child can retreat.
Conclusion:-
Self control is a key, every child should learn to manage their emotions and behaviors in healthy ways. it's like a muscle, which get more and more stronger when it's always practiced.